Hey gang!!!
Sorry I've been gone for so long. For the past couple of months I've been slowly changing my image. I'm
trying to exercise regularly by taking long walks. I have slowly
managed to stay away from the usual fastfood places. I've changed my
wardrobe. Colored my hair dark brown. Now I'm getting these long
stares or double takes from several women. I'm trying to break out of
my shy guy shell. I still have a problem starting and maintaining a
conversation with women.
I can't escape the fact that I'm still
a geek. So I've been using it to my advantage. I do my research. I
make my own theories. I run my own experiments. Here is what I've
discovered so far.
Acknowledge your own gifts. If you can't
name at least 5 positive qualities about yourself, then this is your
first problem. You need to appreciate your own gifts before anyone
else will.
Rejection has its purpose. It's just part of the
process of finding the person who's right for you at the right time.
Rejection hurts but it keeps you from wasting time with a person WHO IS
NOT THE ONE.
Women value men who take care of themselves just as
men admire the same in women. If he eats well, exercises, and takes a
little time to think about what he is wearing; it shows he has
self-respect and honors the body that was given to him.
Chris
Rock said that women need 3 things: food, water, and compliments. If
you can periodically reel of a nice compliment and genuinely mean it,
don't hesitate to do it. The benefits will come back to you in
spades. Be careful not to flood her with empty flattery.
Any
women loves an attentive man who values her thoughts, opinions and
feelings. Women want to feel heard and considered seriously. It's not
that a woman is just looking for someone to agree with her. She wants
to know that how she approaches life has an impact on him; she wants to
know that her ideas have been taken in and digested. She matters and
makes a difference.
Understanding is not the same as
agreeing. You don't have to agree with your partner, just listen and
try to understand. People are usually more receptive to working out
and comprising when they feel understood.
Women are emotional
creatures. Therefore, it's extremely important for men to recognize
the different sets of emotions that women speak with. For women, the
feeling is usually more important than the content of a conversation.
This is why men don't get it. They think logically while women think
emotionally.
Put real feelings and passion into what you're
saying and just say whatever the heck spills out. The magic of this
technique is that at a certain point your natural conversational skills
will take over You'll be astonished at how smoothly you come across
with surgical precision aimed directly at the woman's heart.
*** It is NOT what you say that impresses a woman. It is THE FEELING behind what you say that ignites her on fire.
MY research is still ongoing..........
BTW If you see Maveric, tell him his cousin from Hawaii says hi.